March 2, 2026 - Make Every Moment Count
My intention for this post was to be uplifting, light, joyous. Although, there are aspects of that, I also have devastating news to share. Devastating to me, not about me.
Life, in its unpredictable rhythm, has woven in some tender threads of farewell. Today, I’m sharing about two extraordinary women who’ve recently transitioned to a brighter place, not to dwell in sorrow, but to honor the vibrant light they shared with me and so many others. Their stories remind us that even in the face of challenges, joy prevails, laughter echoes, and love endures. Devastating as their departures feel, I want to focus on the love they brought.
When my own path veered onto the cancer journey, I found myself in the company of two incredible friends already navigating their own versions of this uninvited adventure. We didn’t choose the guest list, but oh, how we made the most of the party. Each with our unique playlist, yet bonded by resilience, stubbornness, and positivity.
First, there’s Jenn, our Napa Valley gem. We met her around 1998 while she was managing one of our favorite wineries, and from that day forward, our friendship blossomed like the finest vines. We stayed connected, visiting at least three times a year for many joyful seasons. Around 2007 or 2008, we learned of her ovarian cancer diagnosis. Stage 4 Cancer Sucks. Yet, Jenn turned it into a masterclass in positivity and zest. For nearly 20 years, she fought with grace, always uplifting those around her. I cherish the memory of introducing our son Mason to her when he was just four months old during a 2010 Napa trip. From then on, whenever we’d plan a visit, Mason’s excited first question was always, “Are we going to see Miss Jenn?” And the answer? Always a resounding YES!
Ironically, she moved back to Georgia right around the time of my own diagnosis. She made time to sit with me during chemo infusions, giving me advice, and wrapping me in her signature tight hugs. Jenn left this earth and danced into her next chapter on February 8th of this year, leaving behind a legacy of unbreakable spirit and endless warmth. You will be missed, my friend!
Then there’s sweet, unstoppable Marian. A true force of love and compassion. We became fast friends when she married our dear friend Bill in April 2006. From the moment we met, she infused our world with her infectious laugh that I can still hear this very moment. We shared unforgettable vacations, heartfelt gatherings, and so much goodness. She and Bill were among the first to come to the hospital after Mason’s birth, beaming with joy as they held him. Even through the years, their influence has been a steady, positive anchor in our lives. When colon cancer entered the picture. Marian met it head on. For over 11 years, she never lost her drive or willingness to beat it. If one treatment path failed, she’d leap to the next, embracing trials and innovations with an adventurous heart, even when it tested her limits. Stage 4 Cancer Sucks. Complaints? Never. Instead, she radiated positivity and that unwavering zest for life. Marian stepped into her eternal light on March 1st, just yesterday, and I know she’s already spreading her compassion far and wide. You will be missed, my friend!
We’ve all felt the sting of losing loved ones to cancer, and saying goodbye to these two amazing women so close together is heart wrenching. It’s raw and feels profoundly unfair in the moment. But here’s the joyous truth: They’re free now, in a place of pure peace. We may have lost them on this earth, but we have gained beautiful angels watching over us. Their lives weren’t defined by the battle; they were illuminated by the love they gave and the joy they sparked in everyone lucky enough to know them. It makes me smile to think of Jenn, Marian, Jackie, and Miss Margaret (my beloved mother) sitting around together laughing and free.
And to add a bright light that would make both Jenn and Marian proud, we celebrated Mason’s Court of Honor on February 21st. As I shared in my last post, he officially achieved Eagle in November, but this ceremony honored that accomplishment with all the fanfare. He received his Eagle neckerchief, medal, patch, and certificate. My proudest moment was listening to him give a speech to the large crowd that gathered. He refused my help, insisting on doing it on his own. I must admit, I was a bit nervous. But that nervousness proved unfounded. He delivered the most wonderful speech. Jamie and I are so proud; there aren’t enough words to convey how we feel. We can’t wait to see what life has in store for him. But we’re very aware that it’s people like Jenn and Marian who helped shape him. Being surrounded by the best people, the best friends, and the best love, Jamie and I are forever grateful.
Moments like these? They matter because they teach us to cherish the light in each day. Let’s raise a glass to Jenn, Marian, and Mason. May their stories inspire you to embrace your own with that same vibrant energy. Make every moment count!
With gratitude and light,
Renee